Negotiating With Myself — micro-contracts that stick
End inner wars. Start tiny moves that deliver. ≤10 min a day.
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WHO IT’S FOR
You keep postponing what you already know to do.
Decisions + perfection drain you.
You want progress without fighting yourself.
OUTCOMES (in 10 days)
Less inner friction, easier starts.
Decision 1.0 in minutes, not hours.
BETA over polish, no paralysis.
Boundaries without drama: one micro-“no” a day.
7 minutes for Future-Me every morning.
HOW IT WORKS
Format: 10 days, each ≤10 min: 1 exercise, 3 questions, 1 quantum question, short “what’s going on.”
Tone: warm, practical, slightly playful. Zero jargon.
Tool: You↔You micro-contracts (if–then, time/scope caps, small reward/STOP).
CURRICULUM (at a glance)
Intro: cooperation > coercion.
Day 0: 5 negotiation tools → turned inward: anchor, Plan B, small steps, trade-offs, framing.
D1: Start without war — 8 min LIGHT + 2 min rest.
D2: Ambition with a boundary — cap time or scope + hard STOP.
D3: BETA > polish — ship draft, polish after.
D4: Loyalty vs. loyalty — one micro-“no” to others + one micro-“yes” to self.
D5: 7 minutes for Future-Me — before urgent.
D6: Control vs. acceptance — release 1 item, act on nearest lever.
D7: Roles — 5 min Leader + 3 min Specialist (shift gears).
D8: Paralysis vs. criteria — Decision 1.0 in one song.
D9: Energy — 3 min move → 5 min focus.
D10: You↔You Constitution — 5 standing clauses.
WHAT YOU GET
Do-now exercises (with exact word-for-word scripts).
Cheat sheet + You↔You mantra.
SOCIAL PROOF (100-person simulation)
73/100: easier starts.
58/100: lower decision stress.
52/100: “beta first” more often.
41/100: less guilt when resting.
39/100: healthier boundaries.
FAQ (short)
Time per day? ≤10 min.
No energy? ULTRALIGHT: 3 min + STOP.
Is this “motivation”? No — agreements that hold.
Who is it not for? If you need therapy — this isn’t therapy.
LIGHTNESS GUARANTEE
If after 3 days it feels heavy — drop to LIGHT version. This course is light and effective, not heroic.