Negotiating With Myself — micro-contracts that stick

End inner wars. Start tiny moves that deliver. ≤10 min a day.

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WHO IT’S FOR

  • You keep postponing what you already know to do.

  • Decisions + perfection drain you.

  • You want progress without fighting yourself.

OUTCOMES (in 10 days)

  • Less inner friction, easier starts.

  • Decision 1.0 in minutes, not hours.

  • BETA over polish, no paralysis.

  • Boundaries without drama: one micro-“no” a day.

  • 7 minutes for Future-Me every morning.

HOW IT WORKS

  • Format: 10 days, each ≤10 min: 1 exercise, 3 questions, 1 quantum question, short “what’s going on.”

  • Tone: warm, practical, slightly playful. Zero jargon.

  • Tool: You↔You micro-contracts (if–then, time/scope caps, small reward/STOP).

CURRICULUM (at a glance)

  • Intro: cooperation > coercion.

  • Day 0: 5 negotiation tools → turned inward: anchor, Plan B, small steps, trade-offs, framing.

  • D1: Start without war — 8 min LIGHT + 2 min rest.

  • D2: Ambition with a boundary — cap time or scope + hard STOP.

  • D3: BETA > polish — ship draft, polish after.

  • D4: Loyalty vs. loyalty — one micro-“no” to others + one micro-“yes” to self.

  • D5: 7 minutes for Future-Me — before urgent.

  • D6: Control vs. acceptance — release 1 item, act on nearest lever.

  • D7: Roles — 5 min Leader + 3 min Specialist (shift gears).

  • D8: Paralysis vs. criteria — Decision 1.0 in one song.

  • D9: Energy — 3 min move → 5 min focus.

  • D10: You↔You Constitution — 5 standing clauses.

WHAT YOU GET

  • Do-now exercises (with exact word-for-word scripts).

  • Cheat sheet + You↔You mantra.

SOCIAL PROOF (100-person simulation)

  • 73/100: easier starts.

  • 58/100: lower decision stress.

  • 52/100: “beta first” more often.

  • 41/100: less guilt when resting.

  • 39/100: healthier boundaries.

FAQ (short)

Time per day? ≤10 min.
No energy? ULTRALIGHT: 3 min + STOP.
Is this “motivation”? No — agreements that hold.
Who is it not for? If you need therapy — this isn’t therapy.

LIGHTNESS GUARANTEE

If after 3 days it feels heavy — drop to LIGHT version. This course is light and effective, not heroic.